I'm a working guy who dresses in feminine attire. I'm not trying to fool anyone here. I will sometimes even start a broadcast while getting dressed and I will often undress completely when I am done. Personally, I enjoy seeing someone transform. I think it's a beautiful process, although I can understand why someone wouldn't.
The clothes I wear are not about sexual gratification. I admit, like many, I started experimenting with feminine attire to get turned on by it. Then I realized I couldn't get turned on unless I was wearing them and had to ask if that was really what I wanted to be. Could I be sexual without being feminine? Could I be feminine without being sexual? Did it matter? I don't generally objectify women (I've actually admired them more than anything) but I don't mind playing along if someone wants to objectify me while I am my feminine self.
I could go on for hours about the philosophical side of this... like what is feminine? What is masculine? i.e. can men wear... skirts? I dare you to tell a burly scotsman in a bar that he can't. Can women wear denim and t-shirts? Ask my wife. Can men wear nail polish on a daily basis? Go google "nail polish men" and look at the images tab... then come back.
I will admit, I do tend to feel more like a sexier person while dressed. As a sexually active person, I will also masturbate because I like orgasms. I see nothing wrong with this and find it to be a normal part of being a human being (male or female). However I'm not addicted to it and sometimes I just like to chat and talk about my amazing good looks (yeah right). Chat with me long enough and you might even recognize my very dry and sarcastic sense of humor.
Second. I'm not going to take my clothes off just because you say so. You're not going to earn any points with me by acting like the idiot boy I'm trying not to be. Maybe, if you drop a token or two, but a good conversation with an honest person will always be more attractive to me than numbers. So stick around and ask a question or two... then I might show you mine... especially if you're showing yours.
Third. I don't take kindly to insults. To me or others in my room for that matter. I am very protective... dare I say 'maternal' to people who donate their hard earned time and/or attention to me. I try to respect all people, in case you didn't notice, and I expect my audience to do the same. At all times... you will treat everyone here respectfully. No one here is your slut or any other word you're thinking of (unless we say so first).
While you're here, I demand only one thing from you and that is to respect me and respect each other. Dressing up takes a lot of work... and anyone who has the balls to present that other side of themselves to this judgemental world we live in is to be treated as courageous. I don't even mind if you promote yourself and tell the world about your channel. I really have no tolerance for people who treat others like shit. I'm all for kinky play but if you disrespect anyone in my room, I will make it my mission in life to destroy yours. It would be a mistake to think I don't know how.
And Finally. You'll notice I don't have any restrictions in my room. Bots or spammers will earn an instant ban, but if you have something to say; I won't stop you. Like I said, i don't even mind if you promote your channel on mine. I don't need donations. I don't set a 'goal'. While I wouldn't mind the ability to fund myself here 24/7, I don't foresee that being a reality anytime soon. I dress for fun and I come here for fun.
However, I also realize there are some who aren't as fortunate. Donate to a charity instead of me. I have taken my earnings from here and sent them to a charity. I implore everyone to do the same. Hell, if you need to get rid of some of that post-orgasmic guilt... that would be the perfect the way to do it. If you need a suggestion, just ask and I will be happy to provide a few.
Cross-educating. There's a lot of misconceptions about crossdressing and most are wrong. Crossdressing is not a sexual preference or perversion. Have you always been curious and don't know how to start? Do you already do it in secret and think less of yourself for it? Are you on this site and think there's something wrong with you because you are?
While I try to be entertaining, this site can also be helpful to in a similar mindset as us. I beg you to talk to me, or anyone. You are not alone. I'm not a crisis counselor or anything but if you want to talk to someone in complete anonymity about how you feel... just know that there are tons of people who have been where you are. There's nothing wrong with you, Crossdressing has a rich and varied history and is far more normal than our current society would have you believe.
Reality: I'm a guy who enjoys dressing in what is traditionally female garb. Reality: Other people need money more than I do. I won't say no to a donation or gift but I always try to give to others as much as I give to her. If you don't know what I mean when I say that, maybe this channel isn't for you.
